I lost my job and she gave the pregnancy to another man – Man cries

A 32-year-old man is seeking guidance on how to claim back his child who is currently living with, and calling another man his father.

The man, only known as Ayanda, narrated that, his ex-girlfriend was pregnant for him before they separated but he was denied ownership of the pregnancy.

“I have been in a relationship with a lady few years ago. During our relationship, I cared and provided for her since I had a good job and was even ready to marry until I lost my job. Sel, that same year I lost my job was when she got pregnant for me. All of a sudden, she started behaving strangely and with the assistance of the mother, gave the pregnancy to another man instead,” he shared his problem to The SelShow on Facebook.

He said, he the child who is now three (3) years old looks exactly like him but his ex-girlfriend keeps denying him access to the child.

“Sel, 3 years on the child looks exactly like me and everyone tells me the child is mine. Even though she is with the so called father of the child now, how can I claim my child back,” he further disclosed.

He is in need of guidance on how to claim his child back.

“I believe the child is mine so how do I go about everything? I need your opinion please,” he stressed.

Below is the full story

Dear Sel,

I am a 32 years old guy and need your guidance and the opinion of your readers and counselors to take a critical decision. I have been in a relationship with a lady few years ago. During our relationship, I cared and provided for her since I had a good job and was even ready to marry until I lost my job.

Sel, that same year I lost my job was when she got pregnant for me. All of a sudden, she started behaving strangely and with the assistance of the mother, gave the pregnancy to another man instead of me. When I confronted her, she told me the pregnancy was not for me.

Sel, 3 years on the child looks exactly like me and everyone tells me the child is mine. Even though she is with the so called father of the child now, how can I claim my child back. I believe the child is mine so how do I go about everything? I need your opinion please.

Ayanda,

South Africa

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